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06.12.2021 ♡ #ezdoesit2021

06.12.2021 ♡ #ezdoesit2021

the magical 80’s inspired ceremony of my actual

the magical 80’s inspired ceremony of my actual dreams. I truly can’t believe it was ours, pinch me!!!! 👼🏼🦢☁️ @exhaleevents #ezdoesit2021

the night before 🥂💍✨ #ezdoesit2021

the night before 🥂💍✨ #ezdoesit2021

can’t wait to finally wear these babies 🦢☁️🤍🥂 #ezdoesit2021 #weddingshoes

2 days till I’m wifed up!!! @dowdy 👰🏻🤵🏼🦢🍰
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thx u for capturing us so beautifully @cindygromero, ily!!! #engagementphotos #ezdoesit2021 #engagementshoot

sh*t, this post reminded me I don’t have my some

sh*t, this post reminded me I don’t have my something blue… is that bad luck? If you have any something blue inspo, LMK.

BUT FIRST- let’s talk about anxiety & weddings…

I am SO blessed to have the best wedding planner (ILY @exhaleevents), so I’m not uber stressed. I’m just anxious cause it is who I am. Going to grocery gives me anxiety, so naturally a whole ass wedding is gonna cause some anxiety.

The other night I was spiraling (swipe to see how anxiety likes to f*ck w/ me at 2am), so I went to Google & typed “wedding anxiety”.

Anxiety loves a google search… your arm hurts, Google tells you it could be a heart attack, so naturally YOU ARE 100000% HAVING A HEART ATTACK. Left arm? Right arm? You know the deal.

Google is really out there telling anxious brides that anxiety is a bad omen & it annoyed me. Why not instead… society has made you believe that a wedding is the most monumental day of your existence & NO SHIT you’re anxiety is high?! I got off Google, normalized my own damn anxiety, & fell asleep.

MY TIPS: yes- a wedding is wonderful & SO important… but I find not framing it as “THE BIGGEST DAY OF YOUR WHOLE LIFE!!” really helps take down the vibrations. Also, you’re allowed to have anxiety & still be really excited about your wedding. The two can coexist :)

the lady in line at the store said to me “I love

the lady in line at the store said to me “I love your pajamas” & honestly, I’ve never felt more seen :’)

passive aggressive, but make it aesthetic 👼🏼

passive aggressive, but make it aesthetic 👼🏼🚽🎀 #relationshipadvice #cuteaesthetic

sweats & corsets, it’s all I have time for right

sweats & corsets, it’s all I have time for right now k? 🙃

things that made me happy this week: ♡ cherries

best friends 4ever!!! Can’t wait for you to be m

best friends 4ever!!! Can’t wait for you to be my husband @dowdy 👰🏻🤵🏼🍰👼🏼🛹🦢#thefinalcountdown #ezdoesit2021

not me pretending my cleanse tea is wine- I romant

not me pretending my cleanse tea is wine- I romanticizing my life k!

*just finished reading the mother-in-law & loved it. Fresh out of books for bath time, drop a good rec below plz!!

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